A Year Before Anyone Saw The Odyssey, It Had Sold Out. Most Recruiters Can't Get A Hiring Manager To Answer The Phone.

Last July, cinemas started selling tickets to a film that didn't exist yet.

The Odyssey was still shooting. No trailer online. Nobody outside the production had seen a frame of it. IMAX 70mm screenings went on sale a full twelve months ahead of release, and people bought them anyway.

They weren't buying a film. There was no film to buy. They were buying Christopher Nolan.

Now think about your last client meeting.

The forty-five minutes that decide nothing

You sat down opposite a hiring manager who, three weeks earlier, had no idea you existed. Forty-five minutes to explain your process, your network, your sector knowledge, and why you're different from the last three people who sat in that chair.

Most recruiters who meet a prospect for the first time in the pitch end up being judged on the only thing a stranger can be judged on. Terms.

He's heard the process before. Three other firms said something close enough to identical last month. So he asks what your fee is. Then he asks whether you'd do it on a contingency basis. And you say yes, because the calendar is thin and a live role is a live role.

He wasn't choosing between you and them. He had nothing to choose with.

Then there's the other half of it, the half nobody posts about. The meeting goes well. He's engaged, he's nodding, he tells you to send terms over and he'll get it signed off. You send them that afternoon. Nothing. You follow up on the Thursday, nothing. You leave it a week so you don't look desperate, then send the one that starts "just floating this back to the top of your inbox," and by then you already know.

He never said no. He just went quiet, because you were never a priority, and a man who was never a priority is easy to ignore. You spend the next month telling yourself the role got pulled.

What I actually believe about the meeting

The meeting is not where the deal is won.

By the time you're sitting in front of a hiring manager, most of the decision has already happened, and it happened without you in the room.

The industry teaches this back to front. Better discovery questions. Better objection handling. Better closing lines. All of it aimed at the forty-five minutes, and almost none of it aimed at the twelve months before the forty-five minutes.

Nolan hasn't got a better closing technique than every other director. He's got two decades of people knowing exactly what they're getting when his name is on something. The selling was done years ago. Last summer, people just paid.

I've been on the other side of this

A few years back I ran a live event in London. Ticket price was north of £900.

A bloke called Mike came along. We got talking, and it turned out that was the first time we'd ever spoken. First conversation, first handshake, first anything. He'd paid nine hundred quid to be in a room with someone he'd never met.

So I went back and checked afterwards. He'd been on my email list for over four years. Fourteen hundred and twenty-four emails. Every one of them useful, none of them a pitch, and for four years he did nothing at all with any of them.

Then one day the timing was right, and he bought. He stayed in the APEX programme for more than seven years.

Here's what that taught me, and it's uncomfortable if you're the one sending the emails. I never sold Mike anything. There was no meeting where I convinced him. The convincing happened across four years of him reading things I wrote while I had no idea whether he was reading them or not. By the time we finally spoke, the decision was already made, and I was the last to know about it.

Most recruiters would have stopped at email ten. A lot stop at three. And they stop because they can't see anything happening, which is exactly the point they'd have quit on Mike.

Nobody commits to a stranger in forty-five minutes

Most recruiters only appear in a prospect's world at the precise moment they want something from him. So every conversation starts from zero, and every fee is a negotiation. There's nothing in the account, which means there's nothing to draw on when it matters.

And a market that doesn't know you is a market you have to convince one person at a time, forever. That's the real cost of being invisible. It isn't that nobody's heard of you. It's that you've signed up to make the same argument, from scratch, in every single meeting, for as long as you own the business.

The ones who fix it stop pitching, and it's got nothing to do with confidence. There's just nothing left to pitch by the time the call starts.

A solo recruiter in the SaaS space was working hard and staying invisible. Cold calls unanswered. LinkedIn posts picking up a handful of likes. She stopped chasing and started turning up where her buyers already were: LinkedIn, niche podcasts, webinars run for SaaS communities. First webinar, fifteen people. Third one, seventy-five, and a good number came to her about their hiring afterwards.

One CEO told her: "I heard you on the SaaS Growth Podcast, then saw your LinkedIn post, then my COO forwarded me your webinar invite. It feels like you're reading our minds."

Her business doubled inside a year. She takes Fridays off now.

Nothing about her pitch changed. By the time those CEOs got on a call with her, none of them were asking her to justify anything. That's what Automatic Sales™ produces. How it gets built is a longer conversation. What it does to your calendar looks like that.

Before and after

Before, you start every month at zero. Meetings feel like auditions. The fee conversation is the thing you brace for on the drive over, and when a yes finally lands, it feels more like relief than a decision you made.

After, the prospect turns up already knowing how you work and already agreeing with how you read his market. The fee gets confirmed rather than defended. Terms come back signed without three follow-ups. You start turning work down, and the work you take pays properly.

Owners we work with have gone from a hundred per cent contingency to four retainers inside three weeks. Not off the back of a slicker pitch. They changed what happened in the months before the meeting.

Odysseus took twenty years to get home, and a fair bit of that was the route he chose rather than the distance he had to cover. Ten years of fighting for work that should be coming to you is the same kind of detour. The people waiting at home are the ones paying for it.

One thing to do this week

Go back through your last ten client meetings and sort them into three piles.

Pile one: he'd never heard of you. Someone made an introduction, or you got through on the phone, or he answered a message. You turned up as a stranger and had to earn everything inside the hour.

Pile two: he'd heard of your firm. Recognised the name, maybe knew you worked his sector, but couldn't have told you a single thing you believed about his market.

Pile three: he knew you. Had read something, watched something, heard you say something, and came in already agreeing with you.

Now put your fee against each pile. Then your terms. Then, if you want the honest version, your conversion rate.

Most owners who run this find almost everything sitting in piles one and two, and the handful of deals they're proudest of sitting in pile three. Have a proper look at what that's telling you.

Over to you

Here's the question I'd put to you, honestly. When was the last time you walked into a client meeting and didn't have to explain why they should pick you over the other three?

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